I brought my daughter into the world and took her out of it.” As I held Deborah’s hand during her final moments, a mix of sadness and relief overcame me—my vibrant daughter, who fought a brave battle with bowel cancer, was finally free from pain.

Despite being a mother of three, losing Deborah, who passed away at 40 after a five-and-a-half-year struggle, has been incredibly hard, especially for her 16-year-old and 14-year-old children, Hugo and Eloise. Deborah, diagnosed with stage 4 bowel cancer at 35, made a significant impact through her Bowelbabe blog and advocacy for cancer awareness. Her legacy, marked by her relentless spirit and passion for life, continues to inspire us as we honor her memory and navigate our grief, cherishing every moment as she taught us to do.

Deborah was a force to be reckoned with, always determined to make the most of every moment, even in the face of her diagnosis. She shared her journey with incredible honesty and vulnerability through her blog, using her platform to raise awareness about the importance of early detection and the realities of living with cancer. Her words touched the hearts of many, sparking conversations and providing comfort to those going through similar struggles.

As we come to terms with her passing, we are reminded of the impact she had on those around her. Her strength and resilience in the face of adversity served as a guiding light for many, showing us all what it means to truly live life to the fullest.

Deborah’s passing leaves a void in our lives, but her legacy will live on through the memories and lessons she shared with us. She taught us the importance of cherishing every moment, of finding joy in the simple things, and of never giving up, no matter how tough the road may seem.

In the midst of our grief, we find solace in the knowledge that Deborah is finally at peace, free from the pain and suffering that plagued her in her final days. We take comfort in the memories we shared, in the love she gave so freely, and in the knowledge that her spirit will always be with us, guiding us through our own journeys.

As we say goodbye to a legend, we hold onto the lessons she taught us, the love she shared, and the impact she had on all of our lives. Deborah may no longer be with us in body, but her spirit will forever live on in our hearts, inspiring us to live each day with the same passion and zest for life that she embodied. Rest in peace, dear Deborah. You will be forever missed, but never forgotten.